Talking Hearts

"Do you feel burdened by the vicious circle of problems ! If yes, then let us help you loosen up !"

Your problems may seem to be made of the most torturous substance in the universe but the SSMK team will help you find the cure here on 'Talking hearts'

Dear Friends,I and my husband decided not to have children until we are economically stable therefore I started using contraceptive pills in order to prevent pregnancy. But I am haunted by some of the myths that surface around contraceptive pills and its

SSMK team: Hello friend from Kathmandu, we are very happy to know that your marriage is a perfect example of mutual understanding and trust and we congratulate you for wonderful communication between you and your spouse regarding your present and your future. We also agree to the fact that becoming parents is a big responsibility therefore, being economically stable first would also mean being responsible towards your children.

Hey friends wat's up? I'm 19 years old and I am very confused and a bit scared. My friends and I were talking about sex when one of my friends said that when you use a condom for sex it always gets stuck in the girls vagina? is it true?

SSMK team: Hey confused boy, thanks a bunch for writing to us! You know people often get worried about this, but truly speaking there's no need to worry! A girl has a cervix at top of her vagina, which blocks the entrance to the womb. If a condom does slips off it can't go far- So just relax ! 

Now when we are talking about a condom we would also like to tell you more about this 'warrior tool' that protects one from HIV/AIDS and other sexually transmitted diseases:

How to use a condom:

Menstruation- It's my, you're and our issue !

Q. Hey, friends I'm 25 years old and till now I haven't had my menstruation period ? Is there anything wrong with me? 

Q. Dear SSMK team, I am 19 years old. My menstruation periods are very traumatic. The pain that I have to face is intolerable and has a prolonged effect. I went to the doctor for a checkup and the doctor told me that the pain that I face during my Menes will go away if I get married, is it true? 

Q. Dear friends, I want to know more about menstruation and the types of things we need to keep in mind when we have our regular periods? 

Is it true that girls get HIV more easily than guys?

SSMK: Girls are at greater risk because after sex the infected sperm stays inside the vagina and there's plenty of time for the virus to pass through the membrane into the blood (It's the same with anal sex).

Rough sex, dry sex and forced sex are very risky for both guys are girls because the penis and anal or vaginal walls get torn and bleed. The blood and sex juices are absorbed more easily during sex through small cuts and sores (STI's also make sores that give the virus a chance to get into your blood). Willing, wet sex means you are doing it right!

What are the signs of HIV that I can look out for?

SSMK: There are no clear signs and you can't tell just by looking at someone that they have the virus. However, if you are involved in risky behavior and if you get some of the symptoms listed below repeatedly over a long period, you should see a doctor: